UPDATE: Saturday, August 25, 2018 7:07:15 AM
You got this far. Well done as so many before you have fled at their own fears
Do you know or understand what it is like to live "out of Culture"?
I live in an environment that in some manner works like this. The crimes committed against me occurred / existed in a religious concept / environment while I and others do not hold with or believe in religious doctrines or dogmas; I simply want to base what I am dealing with on my knowledge, my experience and what I can understand along with any evidence that I can provide or that science has already researched and is satisfied with at the moment of their understanding or not of a phenomena as opposed to an environment where I must meet all the myriad of the occult expectations of others right through government provided systems.
Police, health, community and governments have all drawn supporter from the Christian ticket and had their systems designed over decades based on the best that their religious indoctrination could produce. Survivors are left with the onerous task of attempting to navigate that via the world of magical expectations that simply cannot ever be able to meet the un-stated always moving targets and goals of such a system simply because it has been based on mythology and superstition and nowhere is there a part or a place that will permit the facts, reality and the real world of no superstition, no mythology just the reality that we get to live in based on the real evidence instead of a fantasy make-believe.
If you want to keep us alive simply provide us with genuine secular pathways through secular government systems.
we would love to help you personally BUT .... our hands are tied ..... you don't fit the invisible criteria list .... you are the wrong colour ... wrong religion .... wrong gender ... wrong age ... Why can't you be just like me and suffer delusions over mythical gods creating everything including jobs ...... blah blah ....
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APRIL 3 2019 - 5:30PM - Clergy sex abuse survivor Paul Levey sues Catholic Church and includes why many survivors do not seek compensation via politicians, police or the criminal justice system. You can read Paul's first public statement about his experience which was first published here in 2016 For those who don't know my story here it is. Paul Levey Paul thumbed the entire document on his mobile one letter at a time.
John Brown was born in Yea Victoria 3717 on 27 December, 1948. John grew up in Yea, he went to the Catholic school on The Parade Yea and then a final year at Yea High school in Station Street. He undertook an apprenticeship as a Hand and Machine Compositor/Linotype Mechanic at the local newspaper The Yea Chronicle who recently declined to publish John's story. John left Yea after realising that the proprietor and local policeman Bill Ellison along with other local Catholics in his hometown and surrounds at that time were well aware of his abuse and of the rape and abuse of other children in Yea and district and were aware of the many events surrounding the murder of Herbert Henry Kemp of Yea ...... read more and more and more and Site Map
Investigation of an unsolved murder in 1962 can no longer be investigated according to police taskforce SANO because a different pedophile Catholic clergyman who raped a child at age 8 is now dead. As a result of the dead rapist being unconnected with the murder Victorian police remain clue less.
Later in life John married in Toowoomba only to begin the most bizarre period in his life as he learned that he wasnow related by marriage to the then bishop of Toowoomba Bill Morris. Morris was the head of the bishops conference at that time and was the "Go to" person in the country for survivors of childhood sexual abuse by Catholic clergy and yet I was never able to get a time or a conversation with the bishop. I did get conversations or connection with a number of Catholic organisations with varying degrees of weirdness some of which I have written about in my blog The FAQyMe Gene & the lifelong search for safe, moral and ethical social justice, the Human Right to a trauma informed and evidence based recovery and social re-engagement unhindered by the fear, anger, blockages or projections from other people's gods .
John is author and publisher of #TraumaTheory and regularly blogs at The FAQyMe Gene on his journey, recovery and the horror and the scale of this global issue.
John's personal story is just another from the hundreds of millions of other stories across the globe eminating from the human rights abuses and ongoing horrors of the systemic rape, abuses of trust, fraud, deception and cover up in the global Catholic and other religions. Like those others his "issues in life" arose and remain simply because his abusers as a child were just like theirs in that their rapists and abusers were Catholic or Catholic or Christian clergy and they too remain ineligible or unable to have their human rights upheld in their lifetime..