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Chapter 8

People who have had a positive influence on my life

Chapter 8 People who have had a positive influence on my life

People who have had a major positive influence on my life - see also people who have had a major negative influence and people I have met or have known (coming soon)

Alice Miller - For Your Own Good The Roots of Violence in Child-rearing. Virago Press 1980. Alice Miller

Robert Sapolsky - Biology Neuroscience Robert Sapolsky

Steven Porges - The PolyVagal Theory - a new approach to Trauma Stephen Porges

Gabor Mate on addiction Gabor Mate

Benjamin Abelow - Corporal Punishment and Christianity Benjamin Abelow

Steven Pinker Psychology Steven Pinker

Daniel Mackler Daniel Mackler

Dr Julian Lim Dr Julian Lim

David Jackson

Kate Chard - Categories and development of the child - associate professor in UK's educational and counseling psychology department since 1996. Kate Chard

Carl Sagan - Astronomer. Carl Sagan

Neil deGrasse Tyson - Astrophysicist. Neil deGrasse Tyson

Dr Iain Stewart - Geologist. Dr Iain Stewart

Professor Alice Roberts - Anatomist, author and broadcaster. Professor Alice Robertson

Patrick Smith - Counsellor.

John Brown - Abolitionist. John Brown Abolitionist

Lancelot "Capability" Brown - Landscape Architect. Lancelot "Capability" Brownn

Alfred Russel Wallace Alfred Russel Wallace

Charles Darwin Charles Darwin

Sam Harris Sam Harris

Richard Feynman Richard Feynman

David Attenboroughn David Attenborough

Gilpin (Yankunytjatjara)

Undoori (Yankunytjatjara)

David Brin Earth

Brian Cox physicistBrian Cox

YanniYanni, Nathan Pacheco, Chloe, van Johnson and more

Herbert Henry Kemp Yea Murdered 1962

Andreah Lockhart CASA Ballarat

Tony and Marion Hutton Yea

Laurence Castle Yea

George Tull. Yea

The Big Wheel - Greyhound Melbourne

My mother Kathleen Rose Brown (Mackin) September 1 - Spring

My brother Anthony

Professor Alice Roberts - Humanism, evolutionary biologist, biological anthropologist.

Johann Hari - author of Chasing the Scream & Lost Connections: Uncovering the Real Causes of Depression - and the Unexpected Solutions

My child for his erudite and sage advice, his ability to obtain independent opinion, advice and discussion in particular when I have an emotional connection. Updated at his request to inform that I have since lost confidence and trust after repeated failures and lack of veracity and clarity of communication in his ability to obtain independent opinion supported by evidence and the ensuing failed decisions and opinions relating to my life experience, my personal safety, well-being, my needs, communication, support, understanding and the safety of my property and the veracity of my life experience. Along with those repeating failures comes a need to distance myself for safety reasons from an inability to comprehend his obsession of basing and assessing outcomes and conclusions as to my personal thought processes and the realities of my life experience based on political genres from the past hundred years or so while attempting to repeatedly inform me of his views on life, transgender, gender and political issues and of the benefits, safety and veracity derived from social engagement with compromised individuals still in the thrall of the largest superstition led misogonistic rape culture and its unverified mythologies and psychologically abusive dogmas and beliefs that make it the only institution on the planet with an infallible man at it's helm claiming to be in direct contact with a God creator of the universe that has consistently over the past 1,000+ plus years caused untold degrees of human suffering, war, murder, theft, human rights abuses and rape on a global scale while getting the presenrt day rape and murder of millions of men, women and children by clergy and religious wrong on every occasion where it has attempted to intervene to enforrce it belief systems and/or to protect its wealth, it's pawns it's power and assets while publicly obsessing in ignorance of human biology and psychology that it claims must be over-ridden by its mystical beliefs without any need for supporting evidence while abusing the human rights of children to be free to reach their full potential without having to be entrapped in mystical and superstious beliefs and habits.

Warwick Middleton psychiatrist

Ben Zeller - Thank you Ben for being the person you were. I will remember our conversations and your wishes and wants for those you loved and cared for and for the world in which you hoped we could all live in equally. You have been one remarkable person in my life and I am grateful for having known you. I am grateful than you found it OK to communicate openly and freely with me - that has been an honor that still cherish. I honor your existence and what you did achieve through remembering your wants for our humanity and what we found important in life through our conversations and as the caring person that I found in you. Everyone deserves to know one person in their lifetime who speaks with the truth of what has been real for them and you Ben did that often with me. Thank you for being you and thank you for being the best friend in the world for my son. I thank you again here as I have thanked you personally for not allowing the taint of my childhood experiences and its echoes through our lives from falsely colouring or tainting our relationship.
JohnB June 17 2017.

Alice Brown (for being the mother of my child )

Alice Brown (for being the mother of my child but then spent the rest of his childhood deploying her every fear by blocking and attacking each and every communication or interaction between my son and myself through relentless replaying of her own horrors. consummately skilled at keeping up appearances while refusing to address dysfunctional aspects appropriately went on to make a career of telling everyone else on the planet how to be a good parent and mother when her own strategy with her own child was an abysmal failure.)

Forcing all of us to relive her horrors time and time again as well as remaining mute and useless in the face of direct threats of sexual assault from her mother towards my child was the most unforgivable of many unforgivable events. Willingly engaging in action s that she knew would be devastating towards me and her inability to separate the important matter than I attempted to relay on so many occasions that attacking or cheating me (by her , her family and those she encouraged into this form of ) cheated my son and today he is disadvantaged as a direct result of her actions. All of that was so unwanted, so unwarranted and so unnecessary. Doing that while portraying herself as a professional in early childhood simply gilded the hypocrisy and showed to be toxic in the extreme.

Matters of Significance to me

The most important words I have ever spoken; these were to my son a few minutes after his birth "Between you and I always the truth".

Signing of The Universal Declaration of Human Rights in December 1948 and the role Australia played in that. My Grandfather was active in the Community with regard to the input Australia had on the declaration.

The public hatred and vilification of Lindy Chamberlain

The level of racism in Australia and the widespread lack of knowledge about Australia's first people.

The White Australia Policy

The ability for a policeman or policewoman to be comprehensively compromised and diverted from their sworn duty at the merest mention of punishment by members of the religion they belong to.

The over-riding of the Human Rights of the Child to reach adulthood in state where they can freely without fear of retribution choose a religion to follow if they wish to do so. Their right to this is stripped from them at the moment that they are introduced to the Biblical God or its counterpart of the Devil.

The lack of acknowledgement in government and community that indoctrination when carried out against children is child abuse.

The ability for people today to cling to absurdities that have no basis in fact. Today and child of 8 or 9 years could write a more just and more moral religious book than the Bible. It astounds me further that those who claim to be Catholic fail to acknowledge that according to Catholic doctrine today the Catholic Church holds with both the Old ad the New Testament as well as the Apocrypha Bible. Most would be reviled at the prospect yet they are bonded through trauma to see themselves as something that in really revolts them to the core. Only fear and trauma can cause such a toxic situation. This information is freely available for any to find on the Vatican web site.

Some personal favorites

TFYQA Think for Yourself - Question Authority

REGGY Random Gift Giving

When what you say is in harmony with what you mean and what you do.

Yanni & David Hudson - Niki Nana (We are One)

YANNI Unico Amore (Enchantment)

Yanni- Love Is All

Mi Todo Eres Tu (Until The Last Moment) - Ender Thomas and Chloe (Yanni Voices 2008)

Yanni - The keeper featuring Leslie Mills

Alice Miller


orality and performance of duty are artificial measures that become necessary when something essential is lacking. The more successfully a person was denied access to his or her feelings in childhood, the larger the arsenal of intellectual weapons and the supply of moral prostheses has to be, because morality and a sense of duty are not sources of strength or fruitful soil for genuine affection. Blood does not flow in artificial limbs; they are for sale and can serve many masters. What was considered good yesterday can -- depending on the decree of government or party -- be considered evil and corrupt today, and vice versa.
But those who have spontaneous feelings can only be themselves. They have no other choice if they want to remain true to themselves. Rejection, ostracism, loss of love, and name calling will not fail to affect them; they will suffer as a result and will dread them, but once they have found their authentic self they will not want to lose it. And when they sense that something is being demanded of them to which their whole being says no, they cannot do it. They simply cannot.

This is the case with people who had the good fortune of being sure of their parents' love even if they had to disappoint certain parental expectations. Or with people who, although they did not have this good fortune to begin with, learned later  to risk the loss of love in order to regain their lost self. They will not be willing to relinquish it again for any price in the world.

Alice Miller "For Your own Good" The roots of violence in childrearing

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I was fortunate enough to have obtained the services of Dr Julian Lim when he working in my city but unfortunately we lost connection for a while. Reconnecting with an experienced and well qualified trauma informed evidence based professional making him the safest and the most knowledgeable I have engaged with and this has been transformational for me. Dr Lim has my full and confident recommendation. Dr Julian Lim



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APRIL 3 2019 - 5:30PM - Clergy sex abuse survivor Paul Levey sues Catholic Church and includes why many survivors do not seek compensation via politicians, police or the criminal justice system. You can read Paul's first public statement about his experience which was first published here in 2016 For those who don't know my story here it is. Paul Levey Paul thumbed the entire document on his mobile one letter at a time.

John Brown was born in Yea Victoria 3717 on 27 December, 1948. John grew up in Yea, he went to the Catholic school on The Parade Yea and then a final year at Yea High school in Station Street. He undertook an apprenticeship as a Hand and Machine Compositor/Linotype Mechanic at the local newspaper The Yea Chronicle who recently declined to publish John's story. John left Yea after realising that the proprietor and local policeman Bill Ellison along with other local Catholics in his hometown and surrounds at that time were well aware of his abuse and of the rape and abuse of other children in Yea and district and were aware of the many events surrounding the murder of Herbert Henry Kemp of Yea ...... read more and more and more and Site Map

Investigation of an unsolved murder in 1962 can no longer be investigated according to police taskforce SANO because a different pedophile Catholic clergyman who raped a child at age 8 is now dead. As a result of the dead rapist being unconnected with the murder Victorian police remain clue less.

Later in life John married in Toowoomba only to begin the most bizarre period in his life as he learned that he wasnow related by marriage to the then bishop of Toowoomba Bill Morris. Morris was the head of the bishops conference at that time and was the "Go to" person in the country for survivors of childhood sexual abuse by Catholic clergy and yet I was never able to get a time or a conversation with the bishop. I did get conversations or connection with a number of Catholic organisations with varying degrees of weirdness some of which I have written about in my blog The FAQyMe Gene & the lifelong search for safe, moral and ethical social justice, the Human Right to a trauma informed and evidence based recovery and social re-engagement unhindered by the fear, anger, blockages or projections from other people's gods .

John is author and publisher of #TraumaTheory and regularly blogs at The FAQyMe Gene on his journey, recovery and the horror and the scale of this global issue.

John's personal story is just another from the hundreds of millions of other stories across the globe eminating from the human rights abuses and ongoing horrors of the systemic rape, abuses of trust, fraud, deception and cover up in the global Catholic and other religions. Like those others his "issues in life" arose and remain simply because his abusers as a child were just like theirs in that their rapists and abusers were Catholic or Catholic or Christian clergy and they too remain ineligible or unable to have their human rights upheld in their lifetime..

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